Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Global Feminism Post
Global Feminism
Global Feminism Part 2
I just read two posts on Clio Talks Back about women against war. She gave many historical examples of women writing to protest war and to try and persuade other women to join them. I thought this was really interesting because if you think about it, it only makes sense that women should be the ones to bring about peace. In relationships women are generally the bridge-builders. We are the care takers of the family, we are responsible for making sure everything runs smoothly. So why not take that to the global level? War is a monumental drain on wealth, resources, and human life--for the most part male life. At the end of a war, after all the men have killed each other off, the women are left to pick up the pieces, care for the wounded, and just in general survive. Of all people women should be against war and do everything in their power to protest it and end it. I hope that if I am ever faced with the reality of war I won't shy away from the challenge of trying to make peace.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Iron Jawed Angels
Iron Jawed Angels does a very good job of showing a very important era in US history. It is the struggle of a group of radical suffragists who break away from the mainstream women’s rights movement fighting for the passage of the nineteenth amendment. Alice Paul and Lucy Burns push the boundaries of political protest in the 1920s to secure the right to vote for women.
The two protagonists have very different personalities and have a tough fight in a chauvinistically dominated country.
The first scene of interest to me was when Alice was outside of the factory and the young factory worker called her a college girl, implying she could not relate to her. Alice goes on to explain about factory fires and the young worker realizes that this is a struggle that affects her as well. This point cements the fact that the movement for women’s suffrage was a universal movement and had some benefit to all regardless of class and race.
Another very unpopular notion was Alice and Lucy’s decision to oppose Woodrow Wilson. This was extremely unpopular because he was a war time president. People thought that the suffrage movement should wait for the war to be over but the radicals decided to break from the mainstream policy and boycott Wilson or any other official which was opposed to woman’s suffrage. They were eventually arrested on false charges and punished and force fed after a hunger strike. This information was leaked and when it was made apparent that this could damage Wilson, he used the war as an excuse and pushed for the passing of the amendment.
One very interesting character in the movie was the Senator’s wife. After she was found to have supported the Alice, the senator cut off her accounts and spending money leaving her with no financial independent support. This in today’s society might seem ludicrous but it showed how much power men held in such a society. Then he appalling took away her children stating that she is too busy to raise them when he does not raise them and thus doesn’t know what goes into it, so who is he to decide. It is eventually this same senator that leaks the information of the treatment of the Iron Jawed Angels that gets the 19th Amendment passed. The most powerful line in the movie came when she states that she is doing this for her daughters. At that point I feel as if the father realized that he does not want his daughters to go through such a struggle and relates to the mother.
Overall, IJA is a terrific film that keeps the viewer grasped until the very end by showing a fight for equality by the other half of the human race.
Why is Feminism Needed?
Monday, September 28, 2009
Maternity Care
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Jj6pqajvB8
I thought it was stupid for Stabenow to say he "does not need maternity care" in his health insurance because it will be "too expensive". Are you kidding me? If every man thought this way, then housewives who depend on their husbands health care would be left out. They would have to depend on the old practices to give labor. Why doesn't he see equality in having a health care policy that takes care of the beauty of giving birth? Does he have any daughters? How can he not think about what his decision means for the future.
Comments like this is why feminism is important today, people need to speak up about what these decisions have on our future. Also, like Kyl stated, connections need to be made with the topic at hand and reality. I understand that in passing a law both arguments need to be made but this is ridiculous!
He needs a letter from his mother like in Iron Jawed Angels!
Monday, September 21, 2009
Why is feminism necessary?
Things have not changed
Scenes in this movie show how much one gender is inferior to the other. A perfect example of this would be when the senator tells his wife that he has sent the children to their grandmothers, canceled her bank account, and has forwarded all of her bills to his office. As well as by letting her know specifically that no judge would rule in favor of her at that moment in time because she was “neglecting” her children by being apart of this movement and not tending to their every need. Nowadays women are expected to hold a position in the job market as well as to tend to the house and the daily chores that come along with a household. Things have still not drastically changed. There are still men out there that believe women should be the head honchos of the duties a house brings, but they of course are the people that run the house while the women scurry along doing the dirty work.
IJA Response
Is there anything that you care about so much that you would dare to get arrested fighting for it? Is there anything that you would go on a hunger strike for, being force-fed raw eggs through a tube? Is there anything that you would devote your entire heart and soul to?
I, personally, do not feel that passionately about anything, so it was very interesting for me to see how passionate these women were about their cause. I think that essentially it was the immense fervor of Alice Paul and her allies that inevitably led to the ratification of the nineteenth amendment in 1920.
I think that what we can all take away from Iron Jawed Angels is that great effort and dedication actually can make a difference – a big one. However, this comes with a disturbing thought: why should anyone have to fight so hard for something that is so seemingly right?
I was shocked by just how terribly the suffragists were treated by men, the government, and even other women. It is incredible that with nearly all of society against them, the suffragists never gave up. I am not sure that in the same position I would be able to be so courageous.
Hopefully, I will never have to go through what these suffragists had to go through. However, I hope that if I ever care about an issue as much as they did, I will fight just as hard for it.
Women Verses Women
Response to IJA
Iron Jawed Angels
Iron Jawed Angels
We need equality NOW.
I believe that courage and determination are at the root of the women’s movement. Determination is the patience that women had for waiting 100 years and never giving up, while everyone told them to wait a little longer. It was also how well they handled the constant excuses that were given to them by the president and the politicians. How they kept away from violence and used other ways for their voices to be heard. How they kept on knocking on doors and talking to people in the streets although they were ignored. Courage is what these women had as they went on a hunger strike as they risk their lives and were starving themselves to death. It is the pain that they went through as they were force fed and resulted in throwing up. It is also the oppression that they faced and the fear of having their children taken away if their husbands chose to, having no authority in their private or personal life, having no one to defend them and having no voice.
One of my favorite quotes that the psychiatrist said as he was talking to the president about Alison Paul was when it pertains to women, “courage is often mistaken by insanity.” I truly believe that courage is at the root of this movement because it was what all these women had as they were patience and constantly being oppressed. Courage is what made the women’s movement so successful; I believe it makes any social movement successful.
As I think about where we are today eighty nine years later from when the 19th Amendment was passed. I believe that we lost that courage and determination that Alison Paul and Lucy Burns had as they were fighting for women right to vote. We cannot wait another 100 years for women to have full equality, to have a society where women can and are able to participate fully in all aspects of social and political life. We need equality NOW.
Iron Jawed Angels
Even though there were some fictional parts (for example the Patrick Dempsey love interest), I felt that the message that these slight additions created were beneficial to a better understanding of US history and made it more relatable for the viewer. Watching this film made me appreciate the struggles that these women went through for my rights so much more. I think that it was because it was easier for me to relate to these women through the contemporary music and familiarity of their faces that I felt more appreciative of their fight for equality.
Iron Jawed Angels
How could a woman's group hate another woman's group when they were fighting for the same cause? Was money the real reason? I don't believe so. It was about who would be heard first. Catz believed she would be the one to persuade President Wilson into passing the right to vote. Instead, he gave her the four letter word that made my skin crawl every time I heard it, "W-A-I-T". Wait for what? Wait to be considered a human being, wait until young girls grow older and realize that the only place they have in this world is under a mans wing. Alice Paul was a perfect example of what it means to self-motivated, confident and independent. Her activism demonstrated what it is to be opinionated and stand for ones own beliefs.
My favorite quote from the movie was "No one should have to fight, their shouldn't be a fight". I totally agree! Why is it necessary for a women to tell a man that they should be treated equally. What makes a man different from a woman besides the physical parts. NOTHING! I do not see either gender better than the other, however, I do believe women have more to offer. The fact that women have the opportunities they have today of receiving education, getting a job, raising children while taking care of a house hold makes us way more valuable. In reality a women doesn't need a man unless she wants to. Our freedom has given us the right to decide what we do and do not want in life. There are still more rights we have to fight for; getting the right to vote was only the first one!
Iron Jawed Angels
Aside from the Emily Leighton I enjoyed developing more knowledge about just went Alice Paul and hundreds of women endured to gain equal rights. While I learned about the movement from teachers and text books in high school, the topic was only discussed to a certain extent. Images of the women standing through all types of weather outside of the White House and how they were treated in Jail struck me. It affirmed the question I often hear of whether or not images are more intense thought provoking and then text. The one dislike I had about the movie was with the portrayal and viewings of Ida B Wells and her involvement with the movement. While there is a time limit, intentions on showing Alice Paul and Lucy Burn's struggle and efforts, I still feel that Ida's actions, ideas and differences made should have been included more in the film. She was only in one seen at the beginning about the parade and to me that was not enough. However, it did not change how I felt or how much I was impacted by the movie. I loved Ironed Jawed Angels and would recommend it to anyone learning about or interested in the First Wave of Feminism.
Iron Jawed Angels- Strategies Used by Suffragists
Paul and Burns had been in England and were deeply influenced by the British radical feminist, Emmeline Pankhurst. When they returned to the states to join the fight for women’s equality, they did so with the same radical tactics they had learned in England. This did not go over well with the older, more conservative feminists like Carrie Chapman Catt and Anna Howard Shaw, whose approach was to go state-by-state and build a consensus for each state allow women to vote. This was in stark contrast to Paul and Burn’s strategy. Paul and Burns felt there were no guarantees by going state-by-state; it would take too much time.
While political courage cost Alice a great deal, especially in her relationship with Ben Weissman, she sacrificed and put the cause ahead of him, which was unusual at the time. From planning parades, handing out fliers, speaking in streets, recruiting volunteers, speaking to the President, creating a newspaper, organizing the NWP, campaigning all over the country, picketing in front of the White House, to starting a hunger strike in jail, Alice Paul and other suffragists never gave up and did everything in their power to pass a constitutional amendment so women would have to right to vote.
Responce to Iron Jawed Angles
I felt that the most powerful scenes in the mover where those that took place in the jail. It was in these scenes that the physical and mental strength of the women where undeniable and unwavering. The most powerful scenes by far was the scene in the mental ward of the prison when the doctor was questioning Alice Paul about her actions and demanding to explain herself. It is in that scene that here intelligence and personal strength shine through, and she proves that in a moment of extreme pressure, women are in fact capable of keeping their heads. As the doctor tries to coax her into making statements that would bring her sanity into question, she manages to state her case so articulately that she in the end manages to win over the doctor’s opinion.
Iron Jawed Angels
What I found most compelling about the movie was the sub-plot concerning Senator Clayton's wife. It starts with her ignoring the feminist movement, then she volunteers an hour for them, then she donates money, and eventually ends up picketing and going to prison for the suffrage cause. What makes her such a powerul figure to me was that her husband, a senator, did not support the movement in his home or on the senate and even once threatens to divorce her. And yet, she perseveres depsite the fact that the man she loves openly opposes her views. I feel it is one thing to stand up for something you believe in and quite another to stand up for it when your partner is on the other side. can you imagine how hard that would be? What I couldnt understand was how plainly he could see how she felt and still wanted to keep her down by not allowing her to have a vote and therefore to have any rights of her own. I'm pretty sure he came around in the end, but how any man could deny a woman he loves any of the privelages he has, how he could watch her suffer under her oppression and not feel moved to change things is absolutely beyond me. Before this movie I did not fully understand how callously women were treated before they were granted their full rights as citizens.
The New Masculinity
This quote is from an article on feministing.com that I wanted to bring to peoples attention. Apparently, the FRC believes feminism is ruining families, and the only way to fix this is with masculinity. I personally think this is hilarious- who are these brilliant men who think feminism can be beaten down with masculinity? Don't they realize feminism has been fighting this battle ever since it came into existence? And if you really consider equality between men and women "wreaking havoc" you're out of your mind, and have no place giving speeches to anyone.
Iron Jawed Angels
What surprised me the most about this film was seeing the reaction of the government and public to the movement. There was resistance as I expected, but I did not realize that the government worked hard to suppress the movement and portray it in a negative way. When the women continued to demonstrate outside the White House even during the war, this showed great strength and determination. However, the government switched this image around and called their demonstrations treason. They came up with any kind of excuse to imprison the women and even tried to get Alice Paul institutionalized for life. I was horrified and moved by the actions they took to silence the women. One of the most disturbing scenes for me was when they were force feeding Alice. Despite the extreme pain she went through she continued to stay strong and continue her hunger strike. She was an amazing source of inspiration to all of the other women who were part of the movement (and especially those who were jailed like she was).
I really enjoyed learning about the movement from the perspective of those on the inside and learning about Alice Paul and Lucy Burns. I feel like these women are not recognized enough for their accomplishments and it was eye-opening for me to learn about them in this way.
Iron Jawed Angels
This movie was nothing like I had expected, I didn’t know anything about it going in and usually movies assigned for a class can feel like a waste of time but this is a movie that I would watch again. I really enjoyed the use of humor especially between Lucy and Alice, it made a very serious subject matter really entertaining, but then I thought maybe that was a method of the filmmaker’s to hold attention by making light of such a serious issue. And then the comedy gets ripped out of the story while the suffragists serve their sentences in the work prison. That section of the film was incredibly moving and really well done, it illustrated in so many different ways their unity, for example when Lucy has her hands cuffed above her head so the rest of the women place their hands above their heads. And I could have interpreted this wrong but I felt as if the suffragists won the female guards over, that Alice and Lucy’s determination and endurance to withstand whatever mistreatment the warden threw their way gained the respect of the guards. I had no idea the physical pain and suffering that these women went through to get them the vote and my vote means so much more to me after seeing this film. I really appreciate the women we saw portrayed and the ones we didn’t for working so tirelessly to get me what I take for granted, but I won’t take it for granted anymore.
Violence in Iron Jawed Angels
Methods Used by Suffragists (IJA)
Iron Jawed Angels Response
Iron Jawed Angels
Iron Jawed Angels
One of the parts that didn’t surprise me, but maybe should have, were the issues of race; how black women weren’t really included. (This is most likely because I read about it a while back in our Women: Images etc. book). I’m not saying I agree with the treatment of black women (because I absolutely do not) but I do see where the NAWSA and the NWP were coming from, they needed all the support they could get from women and if that meant they couldn’t include black women it puts them in a very difficult position, especially when the majority of them didn’t agree with this. I don’t know what I would have done if I were in their position.
What I found kind of upsetting was that the only reason Wilson spoke on behalf of women voting, seemingly taking their side, was because the hunger strike and mistreatment of women in the jail leaked to the press and he was at risk for bad publicity. I don’t know enough about this to know if this part of history is accurate but if it is I’m very disappointed that that is how it happened. I suppose I should be happy just in general that it happened at all, but I can’t help but feel let down that after all the work the women’s suffrage movement put it, it was as shallow as bad publicity for the president.
IJA Response
Iron Jawed Angels
Sunday, September 20, 2009
IJAs
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Separate Trains for the Sexes
The attached video is from Anthony Bourdain’s Travel Channel show titled No Reservations. The relevant footage, taken from an episode when he visits Saudi Arabia, is from, approximately, .47 to 2:11.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
To be or Not To Be, a feminist
I was on girlwpen.com reading some articles the other day and in the sexual freedom category I came across an entry about the ‘Take Back the Night’ protest last spring. This protests’ aim is to stop violence, sexual assault and sexual harassment against men and women- to make our streets safe at night. The thing that stuck out to me most about this entry was something the speaker at the protest said,
“One day I hope that I’m not invited to speak at Take Back the Night. One day I hope that violence and sexual assault against women — and against anyone — is eradicated so that we no longer need marches, and candlelight vigils, and speak-outs, and T-shirts, and signs.”
This is exactly how I feel about feminism- the same way these speaker felt about Take Back the Night. One day I hope feminism isn’t necessary because we are all equal and there is no reason to fight anymore- that time just hasn’t come yet.
Global Protection
After having browsed through the websites of various feminist blogs I came across a post liked from feministing.com discussing the recent death of a young girl in Yemen due to complications in childbirth. This article goes on to discuss the circumstances that lead to the death, including being forced to leave school due to lack of financial means and the consequential marriage to a 24-year-old man, a man exactly twice her age.
It’s situations like these that further my pervious argument, that women’s rights are continually relevant, not just here in the United States, but worldwide. While feminism may take on different roles in other countries due to the extreme cultural difference, the idea that women deserve the right to be protected as human beings is still applicable. If things such as age restrictions of marriages, or even contraceptive had been made available for this girl in Yemen or others like her these situations may have been avoided. It is stories such as this one that I feel are the most persuasive to others and myself when considering whether or not feminism is still necessary today. There are women all over the world that are being put in similar situations because they have no means to make a difference. While I feel it is important to consider that for some of these countries there are restrictions based on religious and social structures, it is still important that these women receive rights as human beings and are protected most importantly for bodily harm.
Feministing.com Response
Women Worldwide
I have to admit that until recently feminism was not something I considered much at all. However, lately I've spent a considerable amount of time contemplating the question of whether or not feminism is something that is still relevant today and I have come to the conclusion that yes it is and probably will always be something that pertains to our society.
As a citizen of the United States when the idea of women’s rights is mentioned we have an immense amount of history to consider and use as reference. From the first wave of suffragist in the early 1900’s, to the activist movement in the 1960’s, women have been fighting for rights in the U.S. for an extensive period of time. As the fight has been ongoing for so many years, it is no surprise that we can track the advancements women have made and when considering the past, note the considerable progress.
Yet, there are is always room for improvement and I feel that the fight to ensure equal rights and protection for all women in this country is and will always be an ongoing movement regardless of the progress made in the past.
That being said I also think it is highly important to consider not only women in this country but worldwide. While the feminist ideas may be most prominent here in the United States, the idea of gaining legal rights and protecting women is something that is relatively new in other countries. In locations such as Somalia and Iran, where women have little to no legal rights feminism is just beginning to become a social movement and with the technological advancements of today things that are happening all over the world are easily made pertinent to everyone with just a click of a button.
Response to (http://girlwpen.com/?p=1717)
Is feminism...
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Oh Boston, You've Disappointed Me...
Feminism in the 21st Century
Yearn for Youth
Angry Much?
This blog, which is advertised by the author as advice she wishes she had received as a young woman is a little crazy, however, it does bring up some issues we already discussed in class. She falls into some of the stereotypes we mentioned being brought up in interviews for our “F” word papers. Basically she sums up being a woman as them only having two choices of how they will be or be perceived by the rest of the world (men in particular). She says we get to be the bitch or the victim. And she also breaks up her rant about life as a woman a few times to comfort any female reader who may be feeling irritated or depressed from the information the author is providing as perfectly fine and that yes, it is true, and no its not going to get any better. Her answer to all of this is that women should take every opportunity they have to absolutely humiliate (the more public the better) any man who makes them feel unequal. I think this blog demonstrates how alive and well feminism is today and where some of those unfortunate stereotypes we discussed in class come from… I know she has help but the author is doing a really great job perpetuating the negative connotations that tag along with feminism all by herself. Please read it.
feminism today? (corina allender)
Before even beginning to tackle the question, is feminism still needed today? I feel required to firstly define what the word feminism means for myself personally. When I tell people I am a feminist it is because I consider myself to be someone who strives for equal rights for everyone and the ability to have control over your own mind and body. So in this sense I clearly do believe in supporting women’s rights, but I believe equally in fostering opportunities for people of all different cultures, religions and ethnicities.
So for myself, when I ask if feminism is still needed today, I must also ask if everyone, in respect to different cultures, is being granted equality, and control over their own body. When I look around at our own country, and other countries throughout the world I see that clearly we are still in dire need of feminists. Here in America, women’s bodies are subjugated through the media’s perception of us as large breasted, super skinny Barbie dolls. This type of portrayal leads to a slew of problems for young girls such as eating disorders, and depression, not to mention the effect that it can have on men by falsifying the female body. In many African countries female genital mutilation is an engrained part of the culture. Although it is generally a religious ritual, we should not forget that this excruciatingly painful practice is often forced upon young girls against their will. Sometimes they are given anesthetic but usually the girls are provided little medical care (in the western sense) of any kind.
The media’s portrayal of women in the United States, and female genital mutilation are just two examples of injustices that I see in the world, which as a feminist make me want to stand up and help create change. I think feminism is still vitally relevant today, and although the literal word may carry negative connotations, its goals and intents are generally admirable and essential to the fight for human rights in the world.
First...Foremost...Feminism
Why I think feminism is still relevant today...
YES, feminism is needed today!
When scrolling through feministing.com I noticed the article, "Australian teen could get seven years in prison for home abortion." The subject abortion is so controversial. Is it okay to have an abortion? Is it wrong because she did not seek medical attention? Whether you agree what the teen did or not she had the right to make that decision. When it all comes down to it, what you believe generates from what you were raised to believe. In her case (probably religion or family played a part to her decision) she could not have the baby and now may face jail time because she did what was in her best interest. I’m not agreeing I can just look beyond my beliefs.
Feminism's Relevancy Today
If feminism wasn’t relevant today than there wouldn’t be a women’s studies department in almost every college or university in the country. Of course its still relevant, there are still woman, there are still men, and women still have yet to gain equal rights to men. As much as many may try and claim we are equal on paper that doesn’t mean people are acting that way… there are jobs, college majors, and activities dominated by men. Women are still placed in a feminine box and expected to stay there and men are placed in a masculine box and expected to stay there. God forbid anyone tries to display traits of the opposite sex they will be criticized and reprimanded for it. There doesn’t seem a way to win. When Hillary Clinton was running for President her every move was criticized, either she was too dainty and emotional or when she put fourth some evidence of strength and opinionated thoughts she was bitchy and not nurturing enough. Now I understand that this can’t all be fixed with a wave of a magic wand, however, as long as women are discriminated against solely on their gender and men are granted privileges solely because of theirs than yes feminism is still needed and yes it is still relevant. We create out of necessity and if a successful solution or a fulfilling resolution had developed we probably wouldn’t have this class.
Why Feminism is still Relevant
This year, there were approximately 15 female CEO’s of Fortune 500 Companies in 2009. Granted not an impressive number, but still a number. How does that translate? The men of America created the financial mess. Big surprise. The question is: Can the growing ranks of female CEO’s clean up the mess? While many female CEO’s pull in much lower salaries than their counterparts, their companies are weathering the economic storm much easier. My bet? A portfolio of the companies run by low-testosterone executives could out-perform the Fortune 500 next year. Banks are still in bad shape but at least women can’t be scapegoats because there weren’t enough of them in leadership roles who had the power to affect change.
Relevancy Of Feminism
Women can vote. Women can own property. Women can get an education. Most women could not give you a legitimate definition of the term feminism, and if they could would most likely follow it with the fact that they are not feminists, themselves. So while it may appear that feminism has become irrelevant in modern society, the truth is that feminism is still needed.
Although women in western culture have earned rights and freedoms to which every citizen should be entitled, there are still nations in the world that treat women as second-class citizens or worse. Feminism is and should be about fighting for the rights of ALL women, not just some, and therefore it is still desperately needed in areas of the world such as the Middle East.
Furthermore, aside from the fact that society should be concerned for the rights of individuals residing elsewhere in the world, if feminism were to be completely abandoned, there would probably still be people out there who would try to revoke the rights of women and reverse much of the progress made thus far.
Whether male or female, we all want to be treated equally, and we should want every other person to be treated the same, regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or gender. That is why feminism is still relevant today. The world needs equality, which cannot be achieved by simply forgetting everything that has helped the world progress and grow, such as feminism and the fight for equal rights.
stripper woes
Is prostitution a feminist topic?
I also found this interesting comment on the Feminist Collective blog: "Sex work often puts feminists in difficult positions. On the one hand, many feminists consider that ‘selling one’s body’ cannot be understood outside of patriarchal mechanisms that keep women, and gender non-conform persons, oppressed. That it amounts to violence against women. On the other hand, many feminists know that self-organizing and claiming one’s rights is the way to transform the world. And that this by no means differs for sex workers."
Here are also some links to sex worker blogs that may be interesting to others:
Monday, September 14, 2009
The Fight Continues- Feminism and Human Trafficking
The photo alone of this poor girl was deeply disturbing. And then it made me think. Thousands of women and young girls are taken away from their families, often to another country every year. They are forced to be prostitutes, housekeepers, involved in criminal activities, and some are forced into oppressed marriages. These women are beaten, raped, starved, psychologically abused, dependent on drugs, and financially broke among other things. They are being enslaved and bought, sold, and smuggled. This disgusting trade is an international business that profits over 9 billion dollars every year according to the FBI. This is sexism and female oppression at its worst. While strides have been made that put American women on the forefront of female equality, the war has not been won and we must never stop fighting. Feminism has gone through many changes throughout the past thirty years. Now more then ever there is no room for accepting this treatment.
Its All About The Women (Reaction to Blog)
Can you walk a straight line?
She's a Sexy Bitch
the power of the sterotype
sexism is in the eye of the beholder
There are differences between actual, undeniable injustices, and feeling victimized when no harm was meant. Women getting paid less than men based on their sex is an absolute injustice: no questions asked. However, getting offensive and rude when a man opens a door for you (trying to be polite) is a bit over the top. I do not deny the fact that feminism is indeed a completely relevant subject, as injustices happen to women every day; but I believe that sometimes feminists and/or advocates take things too far. Sexism is in the eye of the beholder. I see a man open a door for a woman and I think to myself, "Hm. I guess chivalry isn't dead." I hold doors open for women because that is what I was taught is the polite thing to do, and I mean no offense by it. On the other hand, someone else may see a man open a door for a woman and think, "What a pig. He just wants to get in her pants." Both are valid arguments; and I believe that the intentions are variant upon the situation. And what I say is not meant to be offensive to feminists (or anyone for that matter) I have just noticed that in most groups of oppressed peoples there are those who take things too far.
Images such as those Emilia mentioned in her post (the half naked woman essentially selling sex and the domestic perfection) are completely objective. When I read magazines and I see pictures such as these, I do not think about the half naked girl as being exploited. Nor do I think of the picturesque domestic as being subservient or dominated. I see the pictures for what they are - campaign ads. I can understand how many people would completely disagree with me, however, what I have noticed about these people is that they do not (for the most part) realize that not all people think the same as they do. It is situations such as this, where a feminist (or other advocate) may see things too literally, and take his or her advocacy too far.