Thursday, October 29, 2009
Feministing.com Response
This can be a blessing as well as a curse.
For members of the movement that need security in their cause (that like to know just what they're fighting for) this can cause a sense of lack of community and maybe even squabbles. They need then to embrace the uncertainty and flexibility of feminism (or should I say, feminisms). This can cause another problem too.
For people who want to join the cause they might think "Oh it's only about gay rights? I'm more of an economic-rights focused girl." Or if one asked about it, how would a member respond?
It was said at the panel that feminism is wanting equality for everyone that is oppressed. It's working together with any group neccessary to achieve global equality (the disabled community, communities of color, female communities all over the world, etc).
So in conclusion what is feminism's main goal? It's whatever you believe in. Much like what Mariam said about gender. Don't be a boy or girl if you don't feel like either of those fit you. Be a femme, be a butch, be a tomboy, be an androgene, be everything. This ties into their theory that feminism encompasses many spectrums and where you fall in that set of spectrums is the "right" feminism for you.
As a member of a society that loves categories and labels, I was worried to find myself able to free-fall amongst the labels. Queer, female, feminist. What do each of those mean, I'd ask. Well now it's a bit easier because ever since Feministing I ask, "What do each of those mean TO ME?"
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
The Institution of Marriage
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Chris Rock's Good Hair Preview
This is the trailer I discussed Monday in Class for the movie Good Hair. It mirrors a lot of the same things we were discussing about the pressures of modern society on African American Women to have certain hair to be considered "good"
Feminist Discussion at Wheaton
Monday, October 26, 2009
New Standards by Shania "Art" Mason
Wednesday, July 9, 2008 at 8:47pm
I AM my hair
My hair is me
We are one, and we aspire to be free
Not locked and dreading
Not shocked or shedding
No weaves no threading
Just aspirin’ to be free
Naked as my body as the water hits it’s skin
This hair on my head reps the beauty that’s within
Not purchased from a store
not sweepin’ against the floor
Still I refuse to ignore
Who I really am
Cuz I’m not a straight-haired diva
Nor am I a believer
In colors, rinses, and dyes
Synthetic hair supporting enveloped lies
Sculptin’ a false image
Afraid to defy
What society wants every woman to be
Like them girls on the b.e.t
And the one’s that agree that
Longer is better
And better is beauty
And beauty is straight
And straight is cute
And straight is coool
And coool is in
From the root to her chin
Straight strands like strings of violins
Arrested by bobby pins
Let that shit be free
I said Let that shit be free!
Cuz your hair might be the closest you’ll ever get to freedom
So there’s your reason
To be natural
It’s a hard pill to swallow when you admire a reflection in the mirror that
Isn’t factual
It’s a hard pill to swallow when you believe something is yours because you paid for it
Paid 15 years for a house
But the government can still take it (it ain’t yours)
Weave to match the color of your real hair
But you still fakin’ (it ain’t yours)
Braids from your head to your toes
But your head’s achin’
Think that roller-set looks cute
But you’re mistakin’
Because what’s beautiful is when you can dance in the rain
And not worry about the money you paid for that touch-up
Goin’ down the drain
And beauty is when you can go swimmin’ when the blazin’ sun hits your skin
No caps, no nothing, just jump right on in
And beauty is when you can roll right out of bed
Spread some water and grease in your head
And move on with your day
And if you hear “ay bay bay,”
Then there’s more reason to feel great
That someone appreciates
The real you
The real you
The real hairdo
No glues,
And no 3 to 4 hours gone to waste
Just to replace
The image that you were born with
Thriving on all sorts of myths
And this shit makes me sick
It makes me sick when girls spend
So much money on hair, just to be back in the salon the next weekend
Stuck in the little girl mentality
Still playin’ pretend
Tryin’ to keep up with repetitious trends
When will this end?
Ladies,
Ladies,
Ladies, When will you begin to love your hair for what it is and what it isn’t
Black men,
Black men,
Black men, when will you allow your Nubian queens to be everything they are
Natural, Kinky, and so serene
It’s time that the standards of beauty be defined by the natural black woman
By everything she is and by everything that makes her stunning
PEACE+WISDOM
-ARTMASON
Discussion between Paula Giddings and Beverly Guy-Sheftall
Feminist Discussion
The part of the lecture that I enjoyed the most was actually when questions were being taken from the audience. I felt like the audience asked really good questions and it was interesting to hear both women speak of their personal views and experiences. I especially liked when Beverly Guy-Sheftall talked about the ways that she was an activist and an academic when she was at various colleges and universities. She always put her views as a feminist first and she put her job on the line. I was so impressed when she said,"whats the worst that can happen, I lose my job." Most people do not think that way, losing their job would be the end of the world, but she is stands behind her ideals so strongly that losing her job would be less important than not standing up for something she believes in. I hope that some day I can be as passionate as her about a cause.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Thursdays Lecture
This is once again a glorious example of society not changing unless being absolutely forced to, and for the wrong reasons. Time and time again, money is shown to be the universal motivator. While learning this particular example did not surprise me, its still extremely frustrating to me that major human rights issues are not seen as important until money is involved. And this is not a problem that we have overcome in the past century; to this day issues of humanity are not dealt with unless something profitable is at stake. There are dozens of examples, you need only think take into consideration every war we’ve ever fought for gains, and ever genocide we’ve ever ignored.
An intellectually stimulating and motivating conversation (about Black Feminisms)!
Most importantly I was motivated by these women. There was was overwhelming amount of intelligence and passion they exuded about black feminism and feminism in general. Yes this is reflected in their work as writers, professors and activists, but it was a pleasure to see and hear about it first hand. While they repeatedly encouraged me to study Women's Studies further then this Intro class, they may not have realized that I was already encouraged just by listening to their discussion. I'm really glad that they came to Wheaton and that I had the two opportunities in one day to get to know them, have questions answered and gain motivation in staying strong and true to who I am and open to growing physically, mentally and spiritually as a young black woman.
Saturday, October 24, 2009
A Black Feminist Conversation
A Conversation about Black Feminism (optional post)
Optional Post on Giddings and Guy-Sheftall
The part of Paula Giddings and Beverley Guy-Sheftall’s presentation that I found the most intriguing was when a member of the audience asked what they considered to be the definition of feminism. I really liked and agreed with Giddings response which was along the lines of it being the struggle to eliminate all of the –isms (sexism, racism, etc.) that oppress people. The broadness of the definition, and the fact that it takes a multi-faceted approach to oppression are two aspects that I think make it both practical and effective. Including all –isms, and making the clear statement that it is not just sexism that the feminist movement is trying to eradicate is a huge step in de-mystifying the Feminist Movement in today’s society. There are so many stereotypes and narrow perceptions of what the Feminist Movement means today and who it represents and I see Giddings’s articulation of what feminism is as putting these misconceptions to rest. I also thought this definition was interesting because we studied Feminist Criminology in my Criminology class last week. Both Feminist Criminology and bell hooks look at the interlocking systems of oppression that include race, gender, and socioeconomic status. While these are only three of the “identities” (or things off of which –isms can be created) that Giddings’s sees feminism as working to eradicate, I feel that both bell hooks and Feminist Criminology are taking the right steps in looking at feminism as being about more than just sexism.
Thursday, October 22, 2009
A Conversation about Black Feminisms
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Blog Evaluation
Giving Head?
Mojo Mom
It is obvious to me that one of the goals of this blog is also to raise the spirits of women after motherhood. Tiemann acknowledges motherhood is difficult but also offers many inspirational stories to let fellow mothers know they are not alone. One such story was on Kim Clijsters, who made a comeback to win the U.S. open women’s title after coming out of retirement and tackling injuries and burnouts, all while raising a toddler. She is a hard working woman and the message is simple: if she can do it well, so can the rest of the women.
Although the content of the blog is great, the overall visual design is lacking and dull. There is a white background with simple black text. The usual blog roll and guest interviews on one side with podcasts. The information is rich in content for the intended audience and I think if I were a woman and were to become a mother I would benefit from this very much; I suspect in the future as a father I will also. The content makes the blog in this case. The plain Jane look does not help attract attention nor does it hurt the blog because there are not many distractions from the text. The authors repeated use of pictures also keeps one zoned into the stories as well. There were no advertisements on this blog other than a twitter and a facebook solicitation. I feel this also helped give the feeling of a very intimate blog for mothers and parents alike; not one that was meant to solicit but one that was truly meant to help guide mothers toward raising children to be independent productive young adults, while regaining the sense of personal identity that can sometimes by forfeited because of child rearing.
Blog Response
Skylar’s experienced physical and emotional abusive treatment for her sexual orientation by her peers and superiors. This is a brutal example of the corruption that remains present throughout our country. It is especially disturbing to read about this type of treatment within a group which stands for unity. In a time like this, where our country is at war, I would have thought that the army (the US army at that) would embrace everybody and anybody who was physically qualified and willing to serve. Sexual orientation should never affect anybody’s right to defend their country.
Blog Evaluation
For a blog that is funny, informative, and a good read, pandagon.net is definitely the right choice.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Blog Evaluation
Blog Evaluation
Monday, October 12, 2009
Free-Write 1
Sexual Assault Prevention Tips Guaranteed to Work!
1. Don’t put drugs in people’s drinks in order to control their behavior.
2. When you see someone walking by themselves, leave them alone!
3. If you pull over to help someone with car problems, remember not to assault them!
4. NEVER open an unlocked door or window uninvited.
5. If you are in an elevator and someone else gets in, DON’T ASSAULT THEM!
6. Remember, people go to laundry to do their laundry, do not attempt to molest someone who is alone in a laundry room.
7. USE THE BUDDY SYSTEM! If you are not able to stop yourself from assaulting people, ask a friend to stay with you while you are in public.
8. Always be honest with people! Don’t pretend to be a caring friend in order to gain the trust of someone you want to assault. Consider telling them you plan to assault them. If you don’t communicate your intentions, the other person may take that as a sign that you do not plan to rape them.
9. Don’t forget: you can’t have sex with someone unless they are awake!
10. Carry a whistle! If you are worried you might assault someone “on accident” you can hand it to the person you are with, so they can blow it if you do.
This struck a bell with me because, as above with the rape in She's Gotta Have It, most assume that preventing rape is up to women. That we need to follow certain protocol or else it's our fault for being reckless when in fact we should be able to walk the streets at midnight because we are human beings and the only reason we can't is because of predatory male instincts for domination.
I'm tired of women needing to be the victim and the hero at the same time. Rapists, if you need to fuck something into submission, your hand's right there.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Makoni and Taking Action
The US is Overrated
I found The Penguin Atlas of Women in the World to be the most interesting [in a shocking kind of way] piece we’ve read yet this semester. Although it was very informative I was honestly more disgusted than anything at most of what I read/saw. Here I was living in my own little world believing women were practically equal-- a clearly naïve thought. I had always thought the United States was so advanced in the majority of aspects of life, in comparison with other countries; to find that we weren’t is what concerned me the most. For example in the “In Their Place” section, the United States is equal to places like Libya, Sudan and Nigeria in its “religious fundamentalism and nationalist pressure on women, resulting in heightened legal and social restrictions (late 1990s – 2002). And as of May 2002 the United States was one of the ONLY countries (1 of 3) to have signed but not ratified the UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW). The United States also has the second highest (behind South Africa) amount of “actual number of rapes estimated to occur each year” at 700,000. These statistics are bewildering to me and I can’t believe I thought so highly of the US for so long.
What bothered me the most in the book though, were the statistics on death from illegal abortions in Africa; almost 50% of the deaths that occur from illegal abortions occur in Africa. If you compare these numbers to the number of available contraceptives in Africa, you can see a lot of these deaths could be prevented so easily [not to mention how much basic sexual knowledge and contraceptives could aid in the fight against the HIV/AIDS epidemic].
Monday, October 5, 2009
The Penguin Atlas of Women in the World
The Penguin Atlas of Women: Global Feminism
Two things about the map I found especially interesting were a) the lack of data concerning the number of rapes in the Middle East and Asia and b) the fact that America has by far the largest number of reported rapes. As to that first observation, it is interesting because both those areas are notorious for arranged marriages and widely accepted abuse of women in general. It made me wonder if there wasn't any data because women simply do not report the rapes because no one will care? The second observation, about the 700,000 rapes in America each year, is just absolute shock. America is only third in line for largest popukation in the world, so that can't be the reason. It is illegal for a man to rape his wife. So why does America have so many rapes? I don't have an answer, if anyone wants to make a suggestion please write a comment.
Comparing Contraception Use
There were very many facts that surprised me while looking through The Penguin Atlas of Women in the World. One of the most interesting things I noticed was when comparing the use of contraception and female genital mutilation (FGM). The areas where there are the least amount of contraception use, 10% or fewer, were also the areas where FGM is used. This area is in mid-Africa. The only country that did not fit into this comparison was Egypt, where FGM is almost universal and there is also a 75% contraception use.
Another interesting fact about FGM, was that it is banned by law in most of the countries it is most prevalent in. For example in Egypt, Ethiopia, and Eritrea where the prevalence of FGM is greater than 50%, there are laws that ban the practice. I am curious why these practices are continuing despite this.
I was also surprised by the wide use of female sterilization, which makes up 34% of contraception use, especially in the more developed countries. The countries that had the highest use of female sterilization were countries that had over 50% use of contraception, such as the United States, Canada, and China.
Finally, I expected to see that the areas with the highest incidence of HIV/AIDS would also be the areas with the lowest use of contraception. However, mid-Africa appeared to be the area with the least contraception use, and southeast Africa was the area with the highest HIV/AIDS prevalence. For example, South Africa has over a 75% contraception use, however, the adults carrying HIV is between 5% and 19%. Botswana is similar with a 26%-50% contraception use and also a 20% or higher prevalence of HIV.
Global Feminism (Yes It will be Needed for a Long Time)
abortion
Global Feminism
Sunday, October 4, 2009
Women in the World- War and Rape
I usually make every effort to stay away from titles that have the words atlas and maps in them - I tend to have a horrible sense of direction and an inability to read maps well. However, “The Penguin Atlas of Women in the World” is a true exception. The book is captivating and as I flipped through the pages, I was enthralled with the colorful maps, graphs, and how visually friendly the book is. I was also impressed with the depth of subjects covered, from lesbian rights, murder, abortion, gender preference and breast cancer to fieldwork, migration, plastic surgery and women in the government and military. The book has fascinating statistics and unique topics that I don’t often think about. The atlas points out the continued discrepancy between men and women in countries throughout the world in every aspect of social, economic, and political life; it left a powerful impression on me. I particularly liked the two World Tables in Part 8 on Demography and Health and School, Work and Power on page 108. They were straightforward in understanding the countries who respect women and where they fare better in life.
An area that greatly disturbed me was the section regarding women and rape in war zones on page 101. Seager points out that in Iraq, women continue to be kidnapped, raped and tortured by gangs and religious extremists. Russia and India were highlighted as well. When I viewed women in the military on page 103, between 16%-23% of the women in Russia are active in armed services. Also, women in India are required to serve their countries and are currently in active duty in the armed forces. In these countries, women are fighting and serving their country but continue to be abused and raped. The atlas also states that, “many women serving in the US military in Iraq have been raped by their fellow soldiers. In 2006, 2,947 within-military sexual assaults were reported, and 2,688 in 2007.” These statistics are shocking!
Rape, sexual assault, and harassment are nothing new in the military, but today, more and more women serve in the military. The military is still a “man’s world” and woman are faced with resentment and blame from other soldiers if they report the abuse. Any soldier who reports sexual assaults in the military is seen as betraying the people she serves with, not the other way around. Women shouldn’t have to think about protecting themselves against the people they work with. They feel helpless and depressed because the very people who are supposed to look after them are the ones who are abusing them. They are not the enemy. They are let down from their own country. Many don’t know who to turn to and end up returning home emotionally unable to relate to their families and friends. They lose self-respect and feel they have lost control of their lives. Some are prone to self-destruction while others end up having panic attacks and can’t cope with everyday life. They often turn to drugs or alcohol for escape and others turn to suicide.
The Penguin Atlas of Women in the World
The Penguin Atlas of Women in the World gave a really strong picture of women, feminism, and gender on a global level. It was a refreshing change of pace but also quite overwhelming. Its one thing to look at the US and search through my own experience but to look at these issues on the global scale is eye opening.
I was in the group focused on power. One thing in particular that grabbed my attention was the section on crisis zones. Widespread rape of women by soldiers during times of armed conflict included Russia, South Africa, and India. These areas also had a high percentage of women in active armed forces, which led me to wonder if these countries put women in active duty as bodies and numbers to be killed without a second thought because these countries provide data that suggests women are valued less than men. Are they being used as expendable entities and not human beings?
I just want to know how this occurred. How did this widespread, worldwide, believed notion that women are less than men come to be? Who looked at women and men and had enough power and a highly valued opinion to compare the two and deem women less than and have a startling amount of other people agree and follow? How did we get to where we are? And more importantly why does it take so long to change people’s minds? The fact that female genital mutilation is still occurring in 2009 is disgusting and heartbreaking. The Atlas says that, “An estimated 130 million girls and women in the world have undergone genital cutting; each year, another 2 million join their ranks.”
In my opinion, this book is valuable to this class and it was a great way to gain a large amount of new knowledge about the entire world and it's attitudes and laws towards women. I know that a lot of the facts and pictures within the pages of it will stay with me and maybe my knowledge of it will find a way to be passed along. At the end of our group's discussion the only solution we could come up with was time and education. This book is a great tool for education.
Coming from a culture that is closely tied to, at least, one of the countries where female infanticide rates are the highest in the world, I am not really surprised about these stats or these practices. I have grown up knowing about son preferences, and while extremely grateful that my parents chose to carry me to term and raise me, have always been assaulted with messages that sons were the more valuable investment.
While I understand, but would never condone, the reasoning behind why poorer families would participate in this practice, it is the richer, more affluent families that I completely despise. Why would anyone with such vast resources stoop so low as to kill infants, let alone female infants? They do not have the excuse of not being able to care for her, nor do they have the excuse of not being able to pay the taxes or fines that are imposed by the government for having more than two children (in China’s case). They are the ones with the most power and so it should be their responsibility and duty to stop the government from passing such laws and to at least attempt to save their daughters.
Where are our priorities?
Women in the World: Taken-Trafficking
"Seventeen year-old Kim is the pride and joy of her father Bryan Mills. Bryan is a retired agent who left the Secret Service to be near Kim in California. Kim lives with her mother Lenore and her wealthy stepfather Stuart. Kim manages to convince her reluctant father to allow her to travel to Paris with her friend Amanda. When the girls arrive in Paris they share a cab with a stranger named Peter, and Amanda lets it slip that they are alone in Paris. Using this information an Albanese gang of human traffickers kidnaps the girls. Kim barely has time to call her father and give him information. Her father gets to speak briefly to one of the kidnappers and he promises to kill the kidnappers if they do not let his daughter go free. The kidnapper wishes him "good luck," so Bryan Mills travels to Paris to search for his daughter and her friend"
I watched it the next morning and was blown away by the plot, acting and ending especially. I had been familiar with the Global Sex Trafficking and what an epidemic it's become. I've even watched a documentary on it a year ago. But there was something that intrigued me more by this film. I think it was how disgustingly easy the process of capturing and enslaving young women was.
Women in the Worlds' section on Global Sex Trafficking caught my interest the most (partly because of my progressed interest after seeing the movie). I specifically looked at France, seeing it listed as a destination country and then looked at Russia which is both a source and destination. Interestingly enough, Europe is listed as having the highest prosecutions and convictions. The entire process is both gut wrenching and depressing. The saddest part to me was to skim through the book and see how well these countries have been and are doing in so many other areas and then this topic arrives. That is both shocking and terrifying because that means the actions are that much easier to hide and there for easier to get away with.
FGM in Egypt
To my mind, Egypt’s national development would indicate that such practice would not take place, at least with such prevalence. FGM is a very old tradition in some parts of the world, but I have always associated it with less developed countries where the women and the people in general, have less education and less options. Egypt is not one of these places, and yet when flipping through the penguin atlas, the treatment of women in that country is undeniable poor.
One Bride, That'll Be 42 Cents Postage, Sir
Clearly, we have a problem here. On one site I found this statement, "American men make the best husbands in the world." What!? Says who? The mail order brides who are essentially being bought? Why then does the US have an almost 50% divorce rate? That means that 1 in every 2 couples will end in divorce. And American men make the best husbands? Not with those numbers. This is a huge problem that not only affects the source countries for women, but the US as well, where these women are coming to live. What is so wring with these American men that they can't find a wife here? That, I would like to know. Although the answer from them would probably be that the problem lies with the American women, we're too independent, not enough housewife blood running through our veins anymore.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Bell Hooks: The First Half of Talking Back
Friday, October 2, 2009
Women in the World (Global Feminism)
Until we stop supporting this, I can't really claim we're much better than the (other) patriarchal societies of the world.
Professor Miller's favorite columnists
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Women of the World
The household decision-makers, according to a percentage of women who say their husband alone makes decisions on household spending are mostly done by men in different parts of Sub-Saharan Africa; beginning with 6% in Madagascar to 66% in Malawi. Lower percentages were seen from East Asia/Pacific through the Caribbean and North Africa. I was not shocked by this, I can now trace the origination of gender roles in my culture to the African Diaspora. This books clearly states why feminism is still important today and the drastic changes needed to be made in gender roles